At the heart of every wedding is gratitude. By weaving thankfulness into every moment of your celebration, you create an atmosphere of warmth and connection that your guests will remember long after the last dance. At Boizelle Affaires, we help couples design celebrations that not only look beautiful but also feel gracious.
A Warm Welcome
Your first opportunity to express gratitude is when guests arrive. A welcome sign, beverage or a heartfelt greeting acknowledging their presence sets the tone for the celebration.
During the Celebration
Throughout the wedding day, look for small but meaningful ways to say thank you. During your toast, take a moment to recognize your loved ones and express how much it means that they are there.
Personalized Thank You Letters
The most traditional way to express gratitude is with a handwritten thank-you note. Take the time to personalize each message by mentioning the gift, their effort made to attend your wedding celebration, or a special memory from the day. Your guests will treasure the acknowledgment and thoughtfulness in a handwritten thank-you note.
According to renowned etiquette expert, Emily Post, there are some dos and do nots when writing a thank you note:
Do
- Personalize your notes and make reference to the person and their gift.
- Remember that a gift should be acknowledged in with the same courtesy and generous spirit it was given.
- Be enthusiastic, but do not gush. Avoid saying a gift is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen unless you really mean it.
- Let them know how you plan to use a monetary gift!
Do Not
- Do not send cards with printed messages, an email or post on your website in lieu of a personal note.
- Do not mention if you plan to return the gift or that you are dissatisfied.
- Do not include photos or personalized cards if it will delay sending the note.
- Do not use tardiness as an excuse not to write. Still send a thank you even if it is after your 1st anniversary!
Wedding Favors
Finally, another expression of your gratitude is your wedding favors. While they are not necessary, it can be a special way to acknowledge your guests and add a unique personal touch. We love when couples choose something guests can enjoy that evening or the next day. There is less waste and guests who have traveled from far away don’t have to worry about adding anything to their luggage.
Thanking your guests, by showing appreciation and gratitude for their presence and support is a timeless tradition. Everything from personalized details to a seamless guest experience ensures your wedding day reflects your gratitude and love.
